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		<title>Three Ways to Overcome Cigarette Smoking Addiction</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 14:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Chris Harmen Cigarettes can have a powerful hold on smokers. The reason is the high concentration of nicotine, which has been found to produce an addictive reaction in human beings. When smokers inhale tobacco smoke, the chemicals are absorbed in the bloodstream triggering a strong reaction. But, strictly speaking nicotine itself isn&#8217;t addictive. It&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>by Chris Harmen</strong></em></p>
<p>Cigarettes can have a powerful hold on smokers. The reason is the high concentration of nicotine, which has been found to produce an addictive reaction in human beings. When smokers inhale tobacco smoke, the chemicals are absorbed in the bloodstream triggering a strong reaction. But, strictly speaking nicotine itself isn&#8217;t addictive. It&#8217;s the reaction of the pleasurable feeling of the dopamine-releasing neurons in the brain that causes an addiction. </p>
<p><span id="more-86"></span>When a cigarette is lit and inhaled, the tobacco and other ingredients such as carbon monoxide and over 4,000 chemicals including arsenic are inhaled which can create health risks, most notably lung cancer.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s for that reason alone that many people try to quit smoking. 35,000 smokers try to quit each year, but less than five percent stop smoking for at least a year. And a large percentage that try to quit, try going &#8216;cold turkey&#8217;. But with the powerful effects of nicotine addiction, it can be very hard to succeed. </p>
<p>There are three proven ways to overcome a smoking addiction:</p>
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<p><strong>Putting A Patch On A Nicotine Addiction</strong></p>
<p>Some people who quit smoking choose the nicotine patch. The transdermal patch allows nicotine to enter the bloodstream through the skin. Patches provide a continuous nicotine release at a slower, less intense burst than smoking does.</p>
<p>As with other nicotine-replacement treatments, the nicotine patch allows smokers to get the feel-good chemical reaction without the harmful side effects of smoking. The patch is meant to be used as a temporary smoking cessation tool. Patches come in different strengths so that users can slowly decrease their exposure to nicotine until they can live comfortably without it. Some people who use the patch experience side effects including skin reactions at the patch site.</p>
<p><strong>Using Nicotine Gum As A Substitute</strong></p>
<p>Many people choose nicotine gum as a way to get the pleasure-inducing dopamine release that nicotine provides. Nicotine gum can work for some people who are addicted to nicotine, but who don&#8217;t necessarily love the act of smoking.</p>
<p>In the film Meet The Parents, Ben Stiller&#8217;s character tried to avoid smoking while staying with his prospective in-laws by chewing nicotine gum excessively. Eventually he gave up and reverted back to smoking, causing a fire and mayhem ensuing.</p>
<p>That Hollywood exaggeration illustrated the main flaw with nicotine gum and with the patch. Chewing gum doesn&#8217;t simulate the experience that many smokers become accustomed to and enjoy: Taking a long draw from a cigarette, inhaling, and exhaling. That feeling can create such relaxation to a long-time smoker, that the experience is almost as habit-forming as the nicotine itself.</p>
<p>Nicotine gum may not be appropriate in some settings. Many companies ask employees to refrain from chewing gum for the sake of keeping a professional environment. Trying to fit a short 10 or 15-minute session of chewing nicotine gum may not provide the dose of nicotine that provides the same effect as smoking one cigarette.</p>
<p><strong>Electronic Cigarettes Provide A Realistic Option To Reduce Nicotine Addiction</strong></p>
<p>It can be very difficult for smokers to quit smoking now, because nicotine isn&#8217;t the only hold that smoking has on them. That&#8217;s the benefit of using electronic cigarettes to decrease nicotine over time.</p>
<p>Electronic cigarettes look, feel, and taste like traditional cigarettes while providing nicotine without the associated risks found with smoking. In contrast to the numerous dangers that smoking tobacco comes with, a smokeless e-cig contains only water, propylene glycol, nicotine, scent and flavor. It produces no ashes, no smell, and no cigarette breath.  </p>
<p>E-cigs have a simulated look of a traditional cigarette with a battery microprocessor that activates an atomized cartridge that injects tiny droplets of liquid into the flowing air that in turn produces mist that is inhaled by the user. The nicotine content found in one cartridge of e-cigs is lower than that found in their tobacco counterparts; however, the user dictates how much they want to consume by replacing the cartridges with lower or higher dose cartridges.  </p>
<p>Whether choosing a nicotine patch, nicotine gum or e-cigs to reduce nicotine addiction, the important thing is to quit smoking now, for your own health and the health of those around you who suffer the effects of secondhand smoke.</p>
<p><strong>About the Author:</strong><br />
Chris Harmen is a writer for <a href="http://www.premiumecigarette.com/electronic-cigarette.html" target="_blank">Premium Electronic Cigarette</a>, an online retailer of  electronic cigarettes. By switching to a smokeless cigarette, smokers can <a href="http://www.premiumecigarette.com/quit-smoking.html" target="_blank">quit smoking now</a> tobacco cigarettes.</p>
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		<title>Four Great Reasons to Go Back to College</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 19:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Jamie Adams DaLomas Just because you&#8217;re well-entrenched in your chosen career doesn&#8217;t mean that going back to college is out of the question. Each year, many adults decide to return to college and enroll in courses for a variety of reasons. The most obvious reason to return to upper level education is, of course, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>by Jamie Adams DaLomas</strong></em></p>
<p>Just because you&#8217;re well-entrenched in your chosen career doesn&#8217;t mean that going back to college is out of the question. Each year, many adults decide to return to college and enroll in courses for a variety of reasons. The most obvious reason to return to upper level education is, of course, to advance in their jobs or with their current employer. Some just feel the need to learn more, while others simply enjoy the experience.</p>
<p><span id="more-78"></span>Yes, going back to school despite having a full-time job and a family or other responsibilities can be difficult, that&#8217;s absolutely true. Aside from the obvious benefits of getting back into college, I&#8217;ve compiled a list of some reasons you may not have thought of.</p>
<p>Check these out:</p>
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<p>You Can Get Specialty Education on the Cheap</p>
<p>How much do lessons for certain activities cost in the &#8220;real world&#8221;? Plenty, that&#8217;s how much. If you decide to go back to college you may find that you can get lessons in many subjects that you enjoy &#8212; such as art, music, gold, tennis, and other hobbies &#8212; for a mere fraction of what months of private lessons would cost.</p>
<p>Big Discounts</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s not forget that college students can often be entitled to BIG discounts at merchants who provide relevant products and services. For instance, I saw one internet service provider (ISP) offering students half off the monthly subscription price for high-speed internet access. Another local pizza joint offered e-coupons for buy one get one free pizza to students only. And don&#8217;t forget that many online merchants offer significantly reduced prices on software (as much as 90% off) for the &#8220;student&#8221; or &#8220;educational&#8221; version of their products. These aren&#8217;t scaled down, limited versions, either.</p>
<p>Tuition Reimbursement</p>
<p>Many employers offer tuition reimbursement programs to their employees. That means in some cases you can take these college courses for free, once you receive your reimbursement payment at work. How does free education sound?</p>
<p>Setting the Example</p>
<p>And finally, let&#8217;s not forget one of the biggest benefits to returning to school: setting the example for others. This is particularly important for parents. If you have teenagers in the house who aren&#8217;t motivated or interested in furthering their education past high school, enrolling in college and completing coursework yourself is a great way to set a positive example. In some households, parents and children enroll in the same course of study together, offering them the chance to bond, to study together, to collaborate on work, and to possibly even graduate together.</p>
<p>So take these ideas into consideration when you start to think about going back to college. These days, thanks to technology, getting back into higher education is easier than ever before.</p>
<p><strong>About the Author:</strong><br />
Jamie Adams DaLomas is an author, educator, career counselor, and a pretty good dancer. His wife recently re-enrolled in college and is charting her trip back into higher education for her latest book.</p>
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		<title>How to Get Rid of Acne &#8211; Take It from the Expert</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 16:54:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Acne has been one big nagging problem that has troubled just about anybody and from all age groups. The cure to Acne can be found in a host of solution and remedies. The cure of acne can be found in two types: medical and natural. The former means getting medication to cure your acne. However, unless the acne is really troublesome and just refuses to go away in spite of your sincere efforts, it is wise not to have medical intervention too much because medicines have their side effects too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>by Alison Roberts</strong></em></p>
<p>Acne has been one big nagging problem that has troubled just about anybody and from all age groups. The cure to acne can be found in a host of solution and remedies. The cure of acne can be found in two types: medical and natural. The former means getting medication to cure your acne. However, unless the acne is really troublesome and just refuses to go away in spite of your sincere efforts, it is wise not to have medical intervention too much because medicines have their side effects too.</p>
<p><span id="more-60"></span>Benign and medium degree acne are best looked after naturally. Natural remedies to cure acne are sustainable and long lasting.</p>
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<p>Take your hands off your face: Your hands come into contact with a lot of foreign particles, most of which can be carriers of germs and bacteria, throughout the day. Each contact with your face would mean transferring at least a part of the germs and bacteria to your face and aggravating your problem. So keep those hands off although it is easier said than done because touching your face is instinctive.</p>
<p>Get your skin washed twice a day: Your face keeps collecting grime and grease throughout the day and they keep building up, clogging the pores of your face. Give your face two good washes a day so that the grease and grime can be washed away.</p>
<p>Get your body to sweat:  One of the better ways to cure acne is to break a sweat. Get exercising, go to a gym, and go on a jog or to your yoga instructor. Exercising keeps your basic body mechanisms strong and the biggest benefit is that when you sweat, it clears the pores on your face of the grime and dust that has got collected all day.</p>
<p>Wear loose fitting clothes: One of the better ways to get rid of acne is to wear loose fitting clothes. Acne pounces on you the moment your skin comes in very close contact with the cloth you are wearing and if the cloth is tight, your skin does not get to breathe. This allows sweat and dust to gather and stay thereby aggravating the problem.</p>
<p>Use Benzoyl Peroxide: Use Benzoyl Peroxide to get rid of acne. This is available in the form of lotions and cleansers and can be bought over the counter. Hence, to know how to get rid of acne, use Benzoyl Peroxide.</p>
<p>Hence, the answer to how to get rid of acne lies mainly in adhering to the simple and fundamental principles of keeping healthy. These principles are suggested keeping a long term cure of acne in mind and these will ensure that you do not have the problem at all.</p>
<p><strong>About the Author:</strong><br />
Visit <a href="http://www.acnegraveyard.com" target="_blank">http://www.acnegraveyard.com</a> for more tips and advice on how to get rid of acne.</p>
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		<title>How to Choose a Managed Hosting Provider</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 20:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are plenty of companies which offer a wide array of choices when it comes to Managed Hosting Services. Choosing the right provider comes down to figuring out which service meets your needs. Pricing can range from free to hundreds of dollars a month or more, depending on the level of service, the amount of bandwidth used, whether or not you share a machine and if you have a single dedicated machine or even a hundred or more machines.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>by Carlo Damon Seminetti</strong></em></p>
<p>There are plenty of companies which offer a wide array of choices when it comes to Managed Hosting Services. Choosing the right provider comes down to figuring out which service meets your needs. Pricing can range from free to hundreds of dollars a month or more, depending on the level of service, the amount of bandwidth used, whether or not you share a machine and if you have a single dedicated machine or even a hundred or more machines.</p>
<p><span id="more-42"></span>Don&#8217;t make a mistake when choosing a managed hosting provider. Follow these resources to ensure that you choose the best provider for your needs:</p>
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<p>First, lets clarify what a Managed Hosting Provider will do for you. A reliable provider will have a climate controlled environment which houses many web servers. The provider is responsible for keeping all the machines online as close to 100% of the time as possible. Average users like you and me will rent part of a machine , an entire machine, or place their own machine in the provider&#8217;s facility. If renting a machine, you will also be allocated some hard drive storage space. Several hundred user accounts can be hosted on each web server. You will be sharing the resources with other users if you have opt for a shared machine. However, your files and directories are only accessible by you. You will also be paying for bandwidth, which mean how much data is being transferred to and from the machine. Usually, each type of customer account has a maximum data transfer limit per month, and you will need to pay extra if you go over that limit. Renting a machine to host a web site or blog is a very common practice these days, and could cost you less than 10 dollars a month.</p>
<p>Enterprise level users, who have multiple machines for commercial purposes, will look for a reliable provider who also provides physical security for their machines. This means a dedicated cage, which is locked and only accessible to individuals cleared by the company renting the space from the managed host provider. 24 hour support is expected and fast response times for fixing issues is critical for businesses that rely on their web servers to be up and running. Another factor to consider is proximity to your own IT support staff. Many times for custom installations, a company may need to perform upgrades, software patches or troubleshooting, all of which may need to be done on site instead of by remote access. It may also be wise to occasionally visit your machines and perform a visual check to make sure conditions and security are as advertised. Naturally, these enterprise level &#8216;super-users&#8217; know much more about their specific requirements and usually have the individuals and expertise to make the proper decisions.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s get back to the average user who is just looking to get a web site set up quickly and for a low cost. Now that you know a few basics of what to expect, how does one go about finding a good provider? You can do a quick search on your favorite search engine and you will see plenty of options. Look for a site that provides reviews for the most popular providers. This will give you some background on how reliable each company is and what others like and don&#8217;t like about each provider. Reliability (machine up-time) and customer support are extremely important factors. Especially for beginners, you want easy to use tools to upload your files and manage your site. Fast and efficient customer service is also critical for a good experience.</p>
<p>Next, you will want to find a provider that supports tools that you are familiar with. For most users, the operating system, Linux, FreeBSD, MacOS or Windows may not matter. But if you are going to be installing some of your own favorite programs, you will most likely want to go with an operating system you are familiar with. Also, you will want to make sure the provider can support databases, plug-ins, and languages that you may be using.</p>
<p>Although it may seem like there are an endless amount of choices involved in searching for a hosting provider, with a little patience, planning and research, even a internet newbie can make an informed and practical choice.
<div class="additional-linkbox"><strong>Need To Know More?<br />&nbsp;<br /><a href="http://www.expertonlineguides.com/choosing-a-managed-web-hosting-provider.html">Please click here to be directed to more expert<br />advice and valuable resources on this topic.</a></strong></div>
<p><strong>About the Author:</strong><br />
Carlo Damon Seminetti is an IT consultant with over 15 years of industry experience.</p>
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		<title>The 7 Signs of a Cheating Spouse</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:10:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Suspicion can ruin an otherwise healthy relationship. If you suspect that your spouse has been cheating on you, then you should immediately take steps to try and determine whether or not they are actually being unfaithful. Lingering doubt can poison your interactions and have a severely negative impact on the future of your relationship.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>by Wendell K. Cribbs</strong></em></p>
<p>Suspicion can ruin an otherwise healthy relationship. If you suspect that your spouse has been cheating on you, then you should immediately take steps to try and determine whether or not they are actually being unfaithful. Lingering doubt can poison your interactions and have a severely negative impact on the future of your relationship.</p>
<p>This article will highlight a number of signs that your spouse may be cheating on you. However, you should be advised that simply because your spouse may exhibit the signs of cheating doesn&#8217;t in itself confirm that they actually are.</p>
<p><span id="more-6"></span>If you are the victim of infidelity you don&#8217;t have to put up with a cheating spouse. You have done nothing to deserve to be disrespected and mistreated.</p>
<p>What follows are some IMPORTANT resources to help you catch a cheat.</p>
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<p>Among the more common signs of a cheating spouse are:</p>
<p>Your spouse brings home presents or small tokens that they seem to care very much about. You should ask about the gifts and try to get to the bottom of why they were received. An honest spouse will usually have a very good reason why they have received the item and why they care about it in particular. For instance it may be completely harmless, such as a special reward for excellent performance at work. In any case, your spouse should be completely honest with you about it. If they appear evasive, you&#8217;ll need to look into it further.</p>
<p>Be wary if your spouse suddenly begins to leave the room or go to a quiet place away from you to take phone calls. They may pass this off as something insignificant, but if it happens frequently it may be cause for concern.</p>
<p>And beware if your partner suddenly purchases new clothes, especially underwear items. In my experience, this can be a common sign that a spouse is having an affair. New undergarments (especially sexy lingerie) purchased for no special reason should raise suspicion if your spouse doesn&#8217;t wear them for you.</p>
<p>If your spouse takes trips out of town without you, you may have reason to be concerned. This is especially true if in the past it was more common that the two of you would travel together, even on business trips. Inquire as to why it is necessary that they go without you, but don&#8217;t press the issue should they become defensive.</p>
<p>Another sign that is common when a spouse is cheating is that they fail to answer their cell phone when you call, particularly during times that you know they should be available. Common excuses for this behavior include &#8220;I had the phone on vibrate and didn&#8217;t hear it ring&#8221; or &#8220;my battery must have died&#8221;. That certinaly may happen once or twice, but if these alleged phone problems persist you may have good reason to be concerned.</p>
<p>The frequency and quality of lovemaking often goes downhill in a relationship that includes a cheating spouse. This is due to the fact that the cheater is usually being satisfied outside of your relationship. This is not only true of lovemaking, but other forms of affection they normally share with you. If they suddenly become cool and distant, and if that attitude persists for more than a short while, it may be a warning sign.</p>
<p>Be suspicious if your spouse suddenly has a pattern of having to often work late. Many relationships grow out of on-the-job interactions among co-workers, and the same is true for infidelity. Your spouse likely spends as much (or more) time with their co-workers as they do with you. You should have courage and ask your spouse directly about having to work late so often. If they claim they&#8217;re putting in overtime, keep track of the hours and compare it to their paystub if possible.</p>
<p>If you suspect that your spouse is cheating with a particular individual, you might consider using the suspect&#8217;s name to your advantage. Casually dropping the name or inquiring about the person could put a cheating partner on the defensive. It may be as simple as asking &#8220;so who is _______?&#8221; and waiting for a response. If your spouse seems upset, worried, angry, or annoyed, you have reason to be concerned.</p>
<p>Your suspicions, even if they are well founded, can poison your relationship.</p>
<p>Finally, the internet has become a common tool for infidelity, whether it be for the purposes of corresponding with a lover (via IM, chat, or e-mail) or even for carrying on an &#8220;online affair&#8221;. If your spouse is spending more time on the internet, especially if they&#8217;re doing so behind your back when you&#8217;re away, asleep, or seemingly uninterested, you should look into the situation. Be particularly wary if you walk in on them unexpectedly and they quickly close an open window on their PC or quickly shuts the lid on their laptop. It may be that they were engaged in some behavior that they don&#8217;t want you to know about.</p>
<p>The most important thing that you must do is make sure you have enough hard evidence before you confront your cheating spouse. Don&#8217;t accuse them until you&#8217;re as certain as you can be. If they ARE cheating and you accuse them prematurely, they may go to greater lengths to cover up their infidelity or take greater care not to further your suspicions. Do not confront them until you make sure you have enough information in hand to make your accusation stick.</p>
<p>Do any of these signs fit your spouse? If so, then it may be time for you to figure out how to catch them red-handed and put an end to your suspicions, one way or the other. It is far better to know for sure, even if the news is bad, than to live with your nagging doubts. If you are being cheated on, it is your right to know. Don&#8217;t be a victim any longer.</p>
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<p><strong>About the Author:</strong><br />
Wendell K. Cribbs is a widely-published author who counsels couples on  relationships and sexuality.</p>
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